Introduction

Some children’s symptoms may be caused or made worse by foods containing milk and wheat; this diet sheet will help you to avoid all foods containing milk and wheat.   

All milk, milk products and manufactured foods containing milk and wheat must be excluded from the diet.  

Milk Substitutes

When milk is excluded from the diet, a substitute is needed to provide the nutrition that your child needs for healthy growth and development. Infant milk formulae are fortified with vitamins and minerals and may be nutritionally adequate.

Under One Year Old

You may continue to breastfeed your baby, but you may need to follow a milk and wheat free diet yourself if you are ask for more written advice to help with this.

If your baby is having infant formula, this will need to be changed to a hypoallergenic infant formula; these are only available on prescription from your GP.

The milk substitutes suitable for children over one can be used in family meals or maternal diet if needing to follow this.

Over One Year Old

Breast Milk

You may continue to breast feed, but you may need to follow a milk and wheat free diet yourself; ask for more advice about this. 

There are many plant based ‘milk’ alternatives available on the market. They vary in nutritional value; your dietitian will advise on which one is suitable.

  • Coconut Milk (e.g. Koko, Koko Super 9, shops’ own brands)
    • This is available from some supermarkets and health food stores. Check you brand is calcium enriched; most are low in protein and energy
  • Soya Milk (e.g. Alpro 1+, shops’ own brands)
    • Some children who are intolerant to milk are also intolerant to soya. Although this makes the diet quite restrictive, your doctor may advise you to avoid soya, especially in the first six weeks. After this time, your doctor may suggest a trial re-introduction.  

If soya milk is tolerated, other soya products can be used e.g. cheese/yogurts/custard. Choose the brands that have calcium added to them. If your child is avoiding soya, the following alternatives may be used

  • Oat Milk (e.g. Oatly, Oat Dream, shops’ own brands)
    • This can be used instead of milk if your child is not also avoiding gluten. This is available from some supermarkets and health food stores.  Buy the brand that has calcium added to it
  • Good Hemp, Brand Milk Alternatives
    • This is available from some supermarkets and health food stores. It contains added calcium
  • Nut-based Milk (e.g. Ecomil, Alpro, Almond Breeze, shops’ own brand)
    • These milks are generally based on almonds or hazelnuts. They can be used unless there is a concern about a possible nut allergy
  • Pea Based Milk (e.g. Mighty Pea, shops’ own brand) 
    • They can be used unless there is a concern about a possible pea/legume allergy. Check your brand contains additional calcium. vitamins and iodine if needed

Organic brands of alternative milks are not fortified with extra calcium (check the label). If fortified, shops own brand alternative milks are a great, cost-effective choice for your child. 

Over Four and a Half Years Old

  • Rice Milk e.g. Rice Dream, Freedom, Rice n Easy, shops’ own brands
    • Most supermarkets and health food shops stock various brands. If possible, buy a brand that has calcium added to it

The Department of Health recommends that all children between the ages of six months and five years old should take supplementary vitamins A, C and D in the form of vitamin drops unless they are drinking 500mls of infant formula per day.

Other Milks

  • Goat, Sheep and Buffalo Milk 
    • These should be excluded as their protein is similar to that of cow’s milk and may cause similar reactions
  • Lactofree Milk
    • This product should be avoided as it contains cow’s milk protein
  • A2 Milk
    • This should be avoided as it still contains cow’s milk

May Contain’ Labels

Some food labels say, ‘may contain milk’ or ‘may contain wheat’. This means that although milk or wheat are not deliberately added to the food, the manufacturers cannot guarantee that the product does not contain small amounts of milk or wheat. If your child has a milk and wheat allergy these food products should be avoided.

Some gluten free foods may contain wheat, so check the label.

Baking Without Wheat

Recipes made with flour other than wheat flour are often very crumbly. Xanthan gum can be added to wheat free recipes, particularly bread to help make a better product.  
 
Try adding ½ teaspoon per 180g of special flour (wheat free flours) for cakes and 1 teaspoon per 180g of special flour for bread. This is available in supermarket “free from” aisles and health food shops or from the stockists listed on the pages 15 and 16.

Labelling

By law, any manufactured food containing milk or any of the common 14 allergens or derivatives, must be highlighted on the ingredient list in bold, underlined or in italics. When you buy any tinned, packet or other processed foods, the list of ingredients should always be checked.  
 
Milk and wheat are present in foods in many different forms. Milk and wheat derivatives are listed on the next page and any foods containing these ingredients should be avoided: 

Milk

Casein and caseinates

Milk solids

Buttermilk

Non-fat milk solids

Butter

Milk powder

Skimmed milk powder

Margarine

Shortening

Yoghurt with lactose

Cream

Artificial cream

Hydrolysed whey protein

Lactose

Cheese powder

Whey syrup sweeteners

Cheese

Monosodium glutamate

Hydrolysed whey sugar

Whey powder

Breadcrumbs

Wheat bran

Bran

Bulgar wheat

Wheat gluten

Couscous

Wheat germ oil

Wholewheat pasta

Oats

Wheat thickener

Wheat binder

Barley

Semolina

Wheat germ

Rye

Hydrolysed wheat protein

Gluten, wheat flour, bread, cakes and biscuits made with wheat flour

Loose, Unwrapped and Unpackaged Foods

Any foods sold loose or unpackaged may be at risk of cross contamination.  Information about ingredients should be available at the point of purchase. You may need to ask staff for information about ingredients.

Tablets and Medicines

Some medicines may contain milk, lactose or wheat as a filler, so check with your doctor or pharmacist to ensure they are suitable.

Milk and Wheat Challenge

Many children grow out of intolerances as they get older. Your doctor will advise when milk and/or wheat can be reintroduced into your child’s diet and will provide you with the necessary instructions.

If there is a possibility that your child may react severely, it will be recommended that the challenge is given under hospital supervision.

School Dinners

It should be possible to arrange milk and wheat free meals at school or nursery. Your dietitian will be able to provide plenty of information about the diet to make it easier for the school. Alternatively, your child can take a milk and wheat free packed lunch. Some children require a life-long milk and wheat free diet.

Foods Allowed

Milk

Milk substitute:

  • Choose the carton that contains added calcium and vitamins. UHT and fresh versions may be available

Milk Products

  • If your child is allowed soya milk you can also give soya or coconut products such as soya yoghurts, desserts, custard and ice cream (e.g. Koko yoghurt, Coyo dessert)
  • Dairy free cheeses (e.g. Cheezly, Sheese, Tofutti, Violife)
  • Non-dairy cream made with vegetable oil e.g. Koko yoghurt, Coyo
  • Dessert, Oatly cream, Oatly custard

Eggs

  • Boiled, poached or fried
  • Omelette or scrambled egg made using milk substitute and dairy free spread

Fats and Oils

  • Dairy free margarine e.g. Pure, Vitalite, Koko, Flora No Dairy or shops own brand, Kosher margarine e.g. Tomor
  • Vegetable or olive oil

Breakfast Cereals (using milk substitute)

  • Cornflakes and Rice Krispies, porridge oats, Oatibix, Coco Pops,
  • Nutribix, Oat So Simple, Natures Path, Doves Farm Orgran ‘free from’ cereals
  • Other cereals only if known to be milk and wheat free

Flours, Grains and Pasta

  • Millet, rice, ground rice, sago, quinoa, cornflour, tapioca, cornmeal, polenta, maize, rye, barley and oats, buckwheat, rice, potato, soya four, Doves Farm wheat free flour range
  • Wheat free pastas from supermarket ‘free from’ ranges

Breads

  • Homemade wheat and milk free bread
  • Rice cakes, Ryvita (original dark, rye, sesame)
  • Wheat and milk free bread (look in the “free from” aisle)

Fruit and Nuts

  • Fresh, frozen and dried fruit
  • Canned fruit in juice or syrup
  • Plain, roasted or salted nuts (whole nuts should not be given to children under five due to the risk of choking

Foods to Avoid

Milk

  • Cow’s milk – full fat, semi skimmed, skimmed, sterilised, UHT, milkshakes
  • Sheep, goat and buffalo milk, dried milk, Coffee Mate and other coffee creamers, evaporated and condensed milk

Milk Products

  • Fromage frais, yoghurt, yoghurt drinks, mousse, ice-cream
  • Cream – double, single, whipping, clotted and artificial cream
  • Cheese, cheese spread, cottage cheese, curd cheese, cream cheese, vegetarian cheese

Eggs

  • Scotch egg

Fats and Oils

  • Butter, Ghee and any other margarine or low fat spread unless known to be milk and wheat free

Breakfast Cereals

  • Cheerios, Weetabix, Weetos and other chocolate containing or flavoured cereals
  • Special K, muesli and other cereals unless known to be milk and wheat free

Flours, Grains and Pasta

  • Wheat, semolina, wheat flour, pasta, couscous and bulgar wheat

Breads

  • All other breads, croissants, paratha, pitta, naan, chapatti, fruit loaf,
  • Ryvita Breaks and Minis, crispbread and crackers unless known to be milk and wheat free

Fruit and Nuts

  • Fruit pie fillings unless known to be milk and wheat free
  • Coated or dry roasted nuts unless known to be milk and wheat free

Foods Allowed

Soups and Sauces

  • Home-made soups without milk, cream, pasta or wheat flour
  • Sauces made with milk substitute
  • Home-made gravy, Marmite, Bovril, Vegemite
  • Ketchup, salsa, tomato-based sauces only if known to be milk and wheat free

Meats, Poultry and Alternatives

  • All fresh or frozen meat and poultry
  • Gravy, sauces and stews made without milk or wheat
  • Processed and pre-packaged meat only if known to be milk and wheat free
  • Quorn, Tofu and soya beans
  • Lentils, beans and pulses

Fish and Fish Products

  • All fresh or frozen fish or shellfish
  • Canned fish in brine or oil
  • Sauces and stews made with milk substitute and milk free margarine
  • Processed and pre-packaged fish only if known to be milk and wheat free

Vegetables

  • All fresh, frozen and dried vegetables and potato
  • Canned vegetables in brine
  • Mashed potato with milk substitute and milk free margarine
  • Oven chips only if known to milk and wheat free
  • Potato crisps—only if known to be milk and wheat free

Puddings and Desserts

  • Jelly, meringues
  • Fruit – fresh or canned in juice or syrup
  • Custard and other milk puddings made with milk substitute
  • Pies, crumbles and sponges made with milk and wheat free ingredients
  • Sorbets, Swedish Glace iced desserts and ice lollies only if known to be milk and wheat free

Biscuits and Cakes

  • Home-made biscuits and cakes made with milk and wheat free ingredients
  • Supermarket ‘free from’ range

Sugar and Confectionery

  • Sugar, glucose,
  • Boiled sweets, lollies, pastilles, fruit gums
  • Marshmallows and mints

Foods to Avoid

Soups and Sauces

  • Canned and packet soups
  • White, parsley, butter and cheese sauces
  • Gravy mixes, stock cubes and browning unless known to be milk and wheat free

Meats, Poultry and Alternatives

  • ‘Made up’ meat dishes e.g. sausages, burgers, hot dogs, faggots, meatballs, rissoles, tinned meats unless labelled wheat and milk free
  • Meat in batter or breadcrumbs e.g. chicken nuggets unless known to be milk and wheat free
  • Vegetarian burgers, grills, ‘made up’ dishes unless known to be milk and wheat free

Fish and Fish Products

  • Canned fish in sauce, ‘made up’ fish dishes or fish in batter or breadcrumbs e.g. fish fingers unless known to be milk and wheat free

Vegetables

  • Mashed potato with ordinary milk and butter
  • Canned vegetables in sauce
  • Potato salad, coleslaw
  • Potato waffles, croquette potatoes, flavoured potato crisps
  • Vegetables in batter or breadcrumbs unless known to be milk and wheat free

Puddings and Desserts

  • Yoghurts, fromage frais, mousse and ice cream
  • Instant custard, desserts, blancmange
  • Pies, crumbles and sponges unless known to be milk and wheat free

 Biscuits and Cakes

  • All other biscuits and cakes unless known to be milk and wheat free

Sugar and Confectionery

  • Artificial sweeteners that contain lactose e.g. Canderel, Sweet n Low unless known to be milk and wheat free
  • Fudge, milk chocolate, toffee and all other sweets and chocolates unless known to be milk and wheat free

Foods Allowed

Preserves and Spreads

  • Honey (not for under 1 year old), marmalade, syrup, jam and treacle
  • Peanut butter only if known to be milk and wheat free

Beverages

  • Milk substitute
  • Tea, coffee, cocoa without milk or using milk substitute
  • Milkshake powder or syrups only if known to be milk and wheat free
  • Mineral waters, fizzy drinks, squash, fruit juices

Miscellaneous

  • Wheat free baking powder, bicarbonate of soda, cream of tartar, yeast
  • Herbs, spice, salt, pepper, vinegar, essences, herbs, spices
  • Colourings, gelatine

Foods to Avoid

Preserves and Spreads

  • Lemon curd, chocolate spread, mincemeat
  • Sandwich spread, mayonnaise, salad cream, paste unless known to be milk and wheat free

Beverages

  • Milk, milkshakes, Bournvita, Ovaltine, Horlicks
  • Drinking chocolate and other chocolate drinks
  • Lattes

Miscellaneous

  • Medicines and tablets containing lactose or wheat filler
  • Monosodium glutamate containing lactose or wheat filler
  • Blended spices

Sample Meal Plan

Breakfast

  • Milk and wheat free cereal with milk substitute
  • Milk and wheat free bread toasted with milk free spread/
  • nut butter or jam
  • Fruit 
  • Fruit juice, tea, coffee or squash

Mid-morning/Mid-afternoon

  • Milk substitute, tea, coffee or squash
  • Plain crisps, popcorn, milk and wheat free cake or biscuit, fruit

Snack Meal

  • Sandwich with suitable bread and spread
  • Meat, fish, poultry, egg or vegetarian filling
  • Salad or vegetable sticks
  • Fresh fruit

Main Meal

  • Meat, fish, poultry, egg or vegetarian alternative
  • Potato, rice, quinoa or wheat free pasta
  • Vegetables or salad
  • Fresh fruit, canned fruit, jelly or pudding made without milk or 
  • wheat or using milk and wheat free substitutes

Before Bed

  • Milk substitute or cocoa made with milk substitute
  • Milk and wheat free bread toasted with milk free spread and jam
  • Milk and wheat free cereal with milk substitute 

Baby Foods

Many commercial baby foods contain milk or milk products and wheat. Remember to check the label. You may wish to contact the company to receive an up-to-date product list.

Home-made Weaning Foods
 
Suitable first weaning foods are pureed fruits and vegetables. These should be cooked with no added salt or sugar and pureed using a blender, liquidizer or sieve. Milk substitute should be added to ensure a smooth consistency.
 
Basic Wheat and Milk Free Bread Recipe
 
Ingredients (NB quantities in brackets are approximately UK conversions): -
 

  • 1 cup (125g) of rice flour
  • 1½ tbsp (25g) sugar
  • 1¾ tsp gluten free baking powder
  • ½ tsp salt
  • 1 egg
  • ½ cup (120ml) of milk substitute
  • ⅛cup (30ml) of vegetable oil
  1. Preheat oven to 180°C or 350°F
  2. Combine dry ingredients and give them a good dry mix to ensure even distribution
  3. Beat egg lightly and add it with the other liquids to the dry ingredients
  4. Mix thoroughly until the batter is a similar consistency to a muffin mix
  5. Pour into a greased small loaf tin
  6. Place on the centre rack of the oven and bake for 20 minutes
  7. Check with a skewer to ensure the loaf is baked right through
  8. Allow to cool in the tin for 30 minutes. Once cool slice and enjoy

Recipe for Milk Jelly

  • Dissolve half a packet of jelly in 250ml of hot water then allow to cool until semi set/at room temperature
  • Whisk in 250mls of milk substitute (soya/oat milk or cream substitute)
  • Put into fridge to set - serve with fresh or tinned fruit

Calcium Supplements

If your child refuses to drink a suitable milk substitute or take enough with breakfast cereals and puddings, it may be necessary to start a calcium supplement. Your dietitian will recommend a suitable calcium supplement that is available on prescription or to buy over the counter

Other Sources of Calcium

  • Milk substitutes—soya, rice or oat milk with added calcium
  • Broccoli
  • Baked beans
  • Oranges
  • Canned sardines with bones
  • Fortified dairy alternative yogurts 
  • Fortified dairy alternative cheeses 

Ask your dietitian for an information sheet on more dietary sources of calcium.

Suitable Finger Foods

By 6 - 7 months your baby can be offered finger foods to encourage self-feeding. Suitable milk and wheat free finger foods include:

  • Cooked vegetable sticks e.g. carrot, courgette
  • Pieces of peeled fruits e.g. banana, soft tinned fruit, apple or pear
  • Milk and wheat free biscuits 
  • Fingers of toast (using suitable bread) with milk free spread
  • Cooked pasta shapes (using suitable wheat free pasta)
  • Baby rice cakes or milk and wheat free cereal

Ask your dietitian for more information on a milk and wheat free weaning diet. 

Eating Out

If you are eating out with your child, ask about ingredients before you go. If you are not sure do not give it to your child.  

Cheeses Made from Soya

Scheese www.buteisland.com
Tofutti www.tofutti.com
Cheezly www.vbitesfoods.com 
Violife www.violifefoods.com 

Catalogue of Products 

www.goodnessdirect.co.uk 

Useful Contacts

Allergy UK

www.allergyuk.org

Alpro Soya UK Ltd.
www.alpro.com/uk

www.provamel.co.uk

The Anaphylaxis Campaign
info@anaphylaxis.org.uk

B Free Foods Ltd

(wheat, gluten, dairy, egg, soya free)

General Dietary Ltd

www.generaldietary.com

Glutafin (Dr Schár UK Ltd)

glutenfree@glutafin.co.uk

www.glutafin.co.uk

Kallo Foods Ltd

www.kallo.com

Nutrition Point Ltd

info@dietaryspecials.co.uk

www.dietaryspecials.co.uk

Oatly
info@oatly.co.uk
www.oatly.com

Orgran

www.orgran.com

Rice Dream

www.mydairyfreedream.com

Ultrapharm Ltd

NP4 0JJ - 0845 270 1400

info@ultrapharm.eu

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Contact us

If you have any queries relating to this information, please contact the Dietetics service.

About this information

Service:
Dietetics

Reference:
DT/111

Approval date:
1 June 2026

Review date:
1 June 2029

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